There’s a parable from the show “The West Wing” that resonates with me about living a life of service to others.  I’ve used it almost as frequently as I do my favorite Margaret Mead quote.  I don’t often get to tell it with the appropriate setup, however, because usually the setup gets in the way of the point. 

If you haven’t watched “The West Wing”, it’s from the last few minutes of a second season episode called “Noel.”    One of the key characters, Josh Lyman, is suffering from post-traumatic stress as a result of being shot.  In the episode he is in a therapy session with a psychologist and when he walks out, his boss, Leo McGarry, is waiting for him.   Leo tells him this:

This guy’s walking down the street when he falls in a hole. The walls are so steep he can’t get out. 

A doctor passes by and the guy shouts up, ‘Hey you. Can you help me out?’  The doctor writes a prescription, throws it down in the hole and moves on.

Then a priest comes along and the guy shouts up, ‘Father, I’m down in this hole can you help me out?’  The priest writes out a prayer, throws it down in the hole and moves on

Then a friend walks by, ‘Hey, Joe, it’s me can you help me out?’ And the friend jumps in the hole. Our guy says, ‘Are you stupid? Now we’re both down here.’ The friend says, ‘Yeah, but I’ve been down here before and I know the way out.’”

Leo tells Josh “As long as I have a job, you have a job.”  The parable gains something when you realize it’s being told by a character that is a recovering alcoholic, being played by an actor that was a recovering alcoholic, whose lines were written by someone struggling with drugs and alcohol himself.   That’s the part I don’t usually get to tell.

Occasionally, you just have to jump in the hole to help someone out.

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